"Don’t worry about it, go in there with a positive mindset! Your health is important to you or you could get sick".
"Ask for a female or male doctor if that would make you feel more comfortable".
"If you feel happier with a specific doctor, say so, as this may help with any issues".
"If you want you can take someone with you, it could a close friend or a family member".
You can also talk to the doctor on your own, if you prefer. You may want to talk about something more private and so you can ask your friend or family member to wait in the waiting room.
"Doctors and nurses are trained to be able to help you understand their technical jargon and will always answer any questions asked. It’s part of the job so don’t feel stupid or embarrassed".